So just like most people, getting into a relationship doesn't always mean boom-bam, fireworks, instant butterflies in your stomach and sweeping you off your feet. Sometimes things can be so draggggggyyyyy that you don't even know what stage or what else you should be doing next....
I know Mr T. for must have been around 8 years now. So we started off awkwardly as online friends (we knew each other from Friendster *roll eyes I know*), party friends. He always took good care of me even when I drink myself silly and made sure he sent me back home safely. So over the years we have been in and out of our own relationships but me and Mr T. never got together as a couple despite we did indicate interests towards each other.
Now... This is an interesting situation. We've known each other for a pretty good number of years now. Even though we don't meet up often. We kinda know each other reasonably well by now. (have 1 or 2 kids, travel and be nerdy together) I know I can be in my comfy tee + shorts, messy hair and really just be myself infront of Mr T. He's very geeky and eccentric in his own sense. I kinda find that cute. I remember accompanying Mr T. to shop for fresh towels and toiletries for his then girlfriend who's visiting Singapore and I thought that's really sweet of him.
Sounds like a fairytale in the making so far? Here comes the BUT................
This fella is in a long distance relationship with a Malaysian lady. So he's attached, still indicating interest(?!) and pretty much an arse in my humble opinion. So now what? Drop and ignore him?
Random ramblings.... If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.... I'm not even sure what triggered me to write this article... Perhaps I should stop asking myself and put this into another perspective. Now Mr T., what do you want?
Love
Missy Piggy
PS: A funny article on he's just NOT that into you - http://thoughtcatalog.com/nathan-macintosh/2013/08/8-things-a-guy-does-that-makes-you-think-he-wants-to-be-with-you-but-not-really/
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